Walking Together
Cairn's guidelines for shared and group journeys
A shared or group journey is a place to read Scripture alongside others and encourage one another. A few simple commitments keep it safe and honest for everyone.
Be kind. Write as you'd speak to a friend across the table. Encourage rather than correct, shame, or argue.
Honor what's shared. Someone's journal is an act of trust. Don't copy, screenshot, or pass it on.
Let Scripture speak. Share what you noticed, not what anyone else should conclude or feel. Christians read many passages differently, and that's welcome here.
No pressure. Each person decides what to share and when. Never push someone to share, write more, or keep going. Anyone can stop sharing or leave at any time.
Keep it safe. No harassment, threats, hateful or sexual content, spam, or selling. Shared and group journeys are for adults 18 and older.
Lead gently. If you lead a group, invite rather than pressure. Never ask anyone to share their journal, and keep what's said at a gathering within the group. Your organization sees group totals only, and you're the one people trust with the rest.
If someone may be in danger, don't wait. If it's urgent, call 911 or your local emergency number. Reach out to them gently, and use Report → I'm worried about this person, which shows crisis lines right away. Cairn's reviewers can help, but they aren't counselors.
If something goes wrong
- You're always in control. You can turn off sharing, keep any single entry private, leave the journey or group, remove your guest (or, as a leader, a member), and report an entry, a comment, or a person.
- Reports go to a small group of people who review Cairn, never to a group's leader or organization. Reviewers may remove a comment, hide an entry from the people it was shared with, remove someone from a group, pause someone's sharing, or close an account.
- Anyone affected gets an email. They can reply to ask for another look.
Questions about these guidelines? Write to hello@cairn.bible. How Cairn handles what you share is in the privacy note, and the rest of the agreement is in the Terms of Use.